He who has EARS let them HEAR pt6

Hi readers, hope the weather is not too tense today? As usual during my weekly survey I met a lady who came for a laser removal of her tattoos and i was like hellooo!! what were you thinking when you got your body tatted up, right there my mind went to relationships;

Am amazed at the high rate of breakup in marriages that I can't stop wondering what the hell this people were thinking before going into it like the tattoo lady above; why did you do it in the first place? After break up then you will want to marry again and you think that will work? If you never dealt with the challenge in your first marriage you will still face it in the next and the next and on and on, no be curse na simple logic, relationships are to be managed and when you cant you quit to go back no more. What am trying to say is that marriages face the same challenges so you are either ready to face it or you don't even go there.
 Agreed the only constant thing is change, but some situations warrant double check before going into them, a marriage with kids is not the same as a marriage without kids, neither is a permanent tattoo and a temporary tattoo the same; it's easier to let go of one than the other that as a bound already.

I keep saying not all things meant for persons A is suitable for persons B the earlier we get that straight the better, is why we have varieties,  choices and options but a lot tend to follow the crowd and fake imaginations that don't exist when the handwriting is clearly stated on the wall, perfections are only in fairy tales and not reality.

Check out these instances; you have been kissing his ass for years just because he is rich with the hope that someday God will touch his heart to help you, my darling that's foolishness, heaven helps those who can help themselves, don't be lazy discover yourself rather than waiting in vain, if that person you are looking up to was like you he will not get to where he is today so stop wasting time looking up to other people's wealth when you can make yours.

Some truths are boldly spelt but because we dont want to swallow the bitter truth we shy away from them, meanwhile wasting more time on non ambitious ventures; imagine a girl living with a guy for over 5yrs with kids now and while she was still hoping that someday the guy will walk down the alter with her; he brought the news of marrying another lady, LOL! Here she goes saying the guy broke her heart but seriously did he? No he didn't, she was just to blind to see; forgetting that we all have our preferences and options. The guy knew what he wanted and went for it but she thought the other was the criteria of getting married to her dream bobo, like seriously! oh girl shine your eyes.

A sugar mum houses you clothes you and you just sit there eat sleep and warm her bed, in no time you will be back on the streets begging. Be wise boy!!

Job hunting for many years no luck then you result to violence blaming it on the society,  forgetting that you have skills.

There are many job opportunities but everybody wants to drive a flashy car immediately knowing that you don't fly up a ladder but climb one step at a time.
I remember after my secondary school education while waiting on admission, my first gift of money from my aunt for making good grades in my WAEC I took it to Lagos market bought some good quality costume jewelries that ladies wear on native to parties, I packaged them and sold to my sisters friends who couldn't go to the market to get those items and I was making 3 times profit back,  no one taught me this, when I made more cash I started going to kuto market in Abeokuta to buy our native homemade fabrics (adire) then bring back to sell to end users in lagos.

A lot of opportunities like that are at our tips, you can go to the village bring in food stuff package them and supply to those in the offices who don't have the time to go get those things, you don't need a shop to do all these but because we all concentrate on the big job hunts forgetting that we can make a living from many other ways that the crowd is not concentrating on.
Who says with your education you can't still do this jobs, you will even do it better because you have good orientations about branding and packaging, before you know it you are making cool cash at your pace and that your dream of driving a flashy ride will come to pass, yet still having time for yourself. Think about it..... let's bring back our farm produce, the creativity is in us.