Hmm that's what our African women have turned to, 70% of the average age still believe in survival in a relationship because our culture says this or that but culture doesn't stop the other party from moving on when he so wishes. With all due respect to those who believe in marriage and it's subordinates as it may apply engaged. The earlier the African woman start to realise that marriage isn't for everyone the better life will become; it's same women who worry about having kids, saving the marriage even when the handwriting is all over the wall that the relatnship is hitting the rocks, will African women ever stand to their feet and see themselves as independent women and stop all the worry?
If you as a married woman can't have your husband work hand in hand with you even in the kitchen up to splitting of bills in the house then you are just a slave in that union and not companions as the word marriage implies.
I feel dissapointed at this jet age when I see some women say in Yoruba Oko ni ade ori obirin meaning the man is the head of the woman, some even say not having an ade ori (husband) makes you loose your respect as a woman, LOL.... If you are in the category of women that believe in such I must say sorry because till Jesus comes you will not be wise and a slave you have chosen to be. Things you should think of is how many men will boost fully say that having a wife is the best thing that has ever happened to them, hmmm so why then do the ade ori seeking women think such?
It baffles me when I see cases of a relationship of many months and the man comes up one day to say it's over with ease; the woman then break down... I don't believe that the female gene is weaker emotionally, even if; I believe it should make you stronger not to the extent of a suicide or thinking your world has come to an end without that man! SMH...... Ah ah I read and hear different stories everyday pls what is happening to our women?
We have more housewives than career women this days o.....
I hear cases of women spending their hard earned money on some guy you want to be yours forever rather than spoiling your self to some silly shopping with that money and trust me that guy won't still be yours because no man even if poor can be bought, he will only pretend to be yours but he knows what he wants deep down, Yeah he does....
Taaaa where is our pride, dignity and ego as a woman? Most successful women out there are single mothers and have you ever thought why they are more successful.... Hmmm that's a story for another day. Join me next week Tuesday for another write up on women ........ Please feel free to drop your comments, as your believe directs, smiles!! Thank you and God bless
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