Tuesday, 31 March 2015

He who has EARS let them HEAR pt.2

For the naive who think single women are promiscuous , Have you ever thought of why we have more successful single women? That's a prove that marriage is a big distraction, success does not need interruption or time cautiousness which is what marriage gives. A typical African man will give you time checks making it impossible to go for oppourtunities dat might crop up outside the time frame giving to the woman; it doesn't excercise freedom but bondage creating less limits for the married woman yet the man in that same marriage doesn't get affected because he will say he is the breadwinner and must seize every oppourtunity to sustain the home.
My arguement is this; who says the woman can't be the breadwinner as well, Yoruba says ka fi owo we owo ni owo fi n mo ( one palm compliments the other to wash the hands clean) so why can't women be seen as 1st class citizens too and not a 2nd class citizen.
Those with the same views as mine will understand that it makes life easier working as a team. 
Am using this medium to educate those who still rely on their subjected ADE ORI's ( husband) to cater for their every needs as it may be; rather than focusing on the future and imagine if perhaps the worst thing ever happened and their ADE ORI can't meet up again what will be their fates?
It's at that point nagging will start and marriages crumble; in other to save the future crash the time to act is now as a stitch in time saves nine: even the scriptures states that what's good needs prayers as well as what has gone bad. Don't wait till it's late before you stand as a woman. Even in your marriages you should be first class citizens and not subjected to being a senior house maid.


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