He who has ears let them hear pt5

I feel like we just following shadows,  I feel like a child without a father...... in Asa's voice!!

Really that's how it seems when we look at most problems affecting we humans. Marital problems, family problems, friendship palava, societal issues, all sort of issues arising in different categories of life .... then you keep wondering if there will ever be a life if problems never existed? ...

I will say problem is a sign that you are still alive because the day you face or see no more challenges then you definitely have kicked the bucket; although life after death i presume to be peaceful as a place of rest BUT only after making it through the hurdles of living in this world of ours!!!

I want to be a dancer but my father wants me to be a doctor, I love my partner but his family is at the edge of me having kids ASAP like its some magic abracadabra LOL, and on and on and on till eternity has it we always have challenges with everyone wishing for the most easy task, how now; if life were a bed of roses won't it be boring?

Really wishes can come to pass if you want it to happen, that is a personal decision of the heart focusing on achieving it by all means and not by words of the mouth or thoughts of the MIND.

Distractions are bound to come that's what makes the journey more interesting

In achieving your dreams you have to be strong with lot of wisdom having it in mind that you are the architect of your own life and knowing fully well that to deprive yourself of happiness just because you want the world to see you as been nice is the height of foolishness and not loyalty, whether you do it or not people will definitely survive with or without you as the assumed KING KONG.

Having in heart that "The evil you do live with you but the good you do comes back to you " all you need is to be on the right path, help when you can rather than hurting yourself in self-pity of rendering help to people who only want to pull you down in other not to achieve your goals, that is DISTRACTION!!!!

Associate yourself with people that align with your pursuit instead of been a one eye man king in the country of the blind in Fela's voice. "A yoruba adage says olowo kan laarin otoshi mefa otoshi na ni" (a rich man in the midst of several poor people is equal to a poor man as well) a word they say is enough for the wise, it pays to be wise than been foolish.
Lastly Very importantly avoid a man that constantly gives you fish rather align yourself with the one who teaches you to fish.

Catch up with me next week as i await your comments and contributions here or via email (hewhohashears@gmail.com). Have a blessed evening.